Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Should Ald Aquaintance Be Forgot Update 12-31-2008
I was going to do a highlight and lowlight list, but I decided not to. If you read this blog, or you know me, you know what they are.
I go in for some additional scans Friday, and as soon as I get the results from those and the others I took last week, I will post them here.
To all of you, may you and your families have a blessed New Year filled with happiness, health, and prosperity.
To my family, I could not do this without you. Thank you.
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Long Time No Post Update 12-27-2008
I caught a cold right after I got back from San Francisco, and it took me quite a while to recover. Two weeks ago, my tumor flared up something fierce and that knocked me for a loop. I haven't experienced that sort of pain for quite a while. I am pretty well recovered now (knock on wood).
The holiday season has been bittersweet for me. Quite frankly I am looking forward for 2008 to be over. This year pretty much sucked for me. However, all of my horoscopes say 2009 is supposed to be a highlight year... anything has got to be better then the year I just went through.
Happy Holidays to you and yours.
Monday, December 15, 2008
Update 12-15-2008
People can and do say anything they want in a public forum. They can make remarks that are insulting. They can make remarks that aren't thought out well. They can make remarks which have nothing to do with the actual subject matter. These remarks distract from the forum topic and prevents a true two way (or multi way) conversation or discussion. They, in fact, inhibit free speech.
I am becoming less of an advocate for "free speech." If the definition of "free speech" is that anyone can say anything they want to, I think I am not for that. My opinion is that speech should be a conversation, or dialog, between people. I don't advocate that we should all have the same opinion. But let's at least have some ground rules that people will stay on topic and not be uncivil to each other. Otherwise, it all becomes noise.
I write this because I was reading an open blog on the San Francisco Chronicle in which the subject was supposedly art and one artist's experience in creating art. Instead, as it so often does, the forum became a place where people inserted their own politics and insults, which had nothing to do whatever with the topic at hand. It was impossible to hold a cogent discussion because the forum was hijacked by attack and rhetoric.
I guess I still expect people to respond to the subject at hand and perhaps bring something unique or personal to the conversation. Maybe my problem is I think a forum IS a conversation, rather then a soapbox.
Monday, December 8, 2008
Absolute Insjustice Update 12/8/2008
The person known as the Butt Bandit has been sentenced to 13 months in prison. His crime? Applying petroleum jelly to his tushis and then placing said tushis on windows throughout the town, leaving an imprint.
Now, let it be said that I personally would not want someone to leave their butt print on my window. Nor would I personally be so inclined as to do something similar, although I have mooned several people during my lifetime (their therapist sends me holiday cards). However, a 13 month stay in the clink for this sort of thing seems to me rather excessive, even for such a traditional, conservative town as Valentine, Nebraska.
I can't help think that this is another example of injustice, right up there with waterboarding and Guantanamo Bay.
I'm thinking a Presidential pardon here.
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Jimmy V Foundation Update
Even before I had cancer, that particular speech and the circumstances in which it was given has always inspired me. After losing my stepmother and uncle to cancer, it resonated even more. Now that I myself have cancer, it has become a talisman, a rallying cry, to have faith and fight on one more day.
This week is the Jimmy V Foundation's fundraiser. There are numerous events going on both to raise awareness and money, including several NCAA basketball games at Madison Square Garden. Many ESPN personalities will participate. And, no doubt, the Jimmy V. speech will be played. If you haven't seen it or heard it, I am sure it will inspire you.
I am asking my friends and my family to consider making a contribution to the Jimmy V. Foundation for Cancer Research. If you go to their website, jimmyv.org, you can find out more information about the work they are doing and the goals they have to cure cancer and to support those of us who have it.
Anyone who reads this blog who knows me knows how horrific cancer is, not just to the person who is afflicted with it, but to their friends and family. Despite all the advances in treatment and technology, going through cancer treatment is amazingly difficult. Certainly it has been the most difficult, life-affecting event that I have experienced in my short time here. Please consider donating to the V Foundation to continue to fight for a cure and treatment so others don't have to go through this.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Post Thanksgiving Update
I'm going to save the medical news for tomorrow; hopefully I will have an update on scheduling scans for the cancer tomorrow when I meet with the oncologist.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Thanksgiving Reflections - 11-25-2008
I am so blessed to have my family. Family is the most important thing in life, bar none. Without the support and love of my family, I would be nothing. I love them so much.
I have great friends who put up with me and who humor me, who accept me for who I am and who keep coming back despite my best efforts to make them go away. I am lucky to have an amazing medical support system centered on my amazing oncologist. I have neighbors who really care about me and who, when they see me on the elevator or in the hall, always ask how I am and if there is anything I need.
I appreciate the readers of this blog, if I've met you in person, electronically through e-mail, or haven't met you at all. The fact that you even give a shit about my life and read my self centered updates is something I appreciate very much and certainly don't take for granted.
Obviously this year has been hard and has many ups and downs. Thanksgiving is a time to look back, reflect, and appreciate what means most. Not the material things, although I am blessed there too... but family, friends, and random people who connect with me and are interested in what I have to say. To all I say, thanks. And to all I say, may you have a joyous Thanksgiving, however you choose to celebrate it.
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Update 11-19-2008
The move really stressed me out and put a lot of strain on me. I am feeling much more tired in general (I call it 'chemo fatigue' since many symptoms feel the same as after I have chemo - I wouldn't be at all surprised if they were related), and it's taking me a while to recover and feel normal again. I am close, though. Hopefully by next week I will be back to feeling my old self again, whatever that means.
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Move In Update 11-16-2008
I'm getting used to my new place (I haven't been here for more then 24 hours) and looking forward to a quiet day today.
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Special message to Yankee fans update
Because I can.
Because I'm bored.
Because they deserve it.
Please return your seats and tray tables to their full upright and locked position. We are about to land. The local temperature in Rio is 75 degrees.
If That's Movin' Up Then I'm Movin' Out update
I have to move out of my apartment. During the recent rains, part of my bedroom ceiling (which has leaked on and off since I moved in) fell down. Fortunately, I won't be moving far. Just a floor down, and an apartment over. It's a nice one bedroom with a different layout then my present place, and it's renovated, which is something I've wanted for this place. So all in all, although moving and change is a pain in the ass for me, the outcome should be good.
For those who need contact info, call or e-mail me.
Monday, November 3, 2008
Kinda Sorta Medical Update 11-3-2208
I had chemo today, a regular dose of chemo as I have been getting for the last little while. I did NOT get the long acting dose of standostatin. I am still having problems with the small dose I am on and was not comfortable going up to the long acting dose. I'll have more to say as updates and conversations with doctors take place, but that's the up-to-the-minute latest.
I go on a lot of different blogs these days. Some of these are open to the public, open subject blogs; normally run by newspapers and general interest websites. Some are subject specific and are moderated; but still open to the public by and large. Some are invite only. Each time I go on a general subject, open to the public blog, I get sick to my stomach. There is a lot of anger out there and a lot of angry people have access to the internet and a keyboard. I am constantly surprised and saddened by the quality of people's remarks. Race bating. Anti Semitism. Liberalism equated to terrorism. Comments about people who are in really bad situations, sometimes through no fault of their own, laughed at and mocked, usually in really bad taste. It's enough to make me stick my own head in the sand. It's enough for me to want to take my own blog private so those idiots don't reach out for me. They haven't so far, but my recent experiences online regarding things posted here have made me aware that this blog is completely public and aside from the moderation firewall I've put in effect, anyone can comment.
There is an old saying that goes something like this: if you want to eat hot dogs, don't go to where they make them. Being online is something like that for me; it's great, but when you open things up to anyone, anyone can comment, and they don't have to be nice.
Saturday, November 1, 2008
everything but a medical update saturday 11-1-2008
Did you hear about the lady in Detroit who refused to give Halloween candy to Obama supporters? Not only did this story make the Internet, but it's national television news too. Lady, you are an idiot. Turning trick-or-treating political is a really bad idea, but getting new coverage because of it is even worse. Her phone number and address are now public. I am sure she is getting death threats. She might end up having to move out of her house. And all because she's an idiot and made some little kids cry because she wants McCain to win. I feel bad for you; the lesson here is, don't get news coverage, because there's no privacy anymore.
I had the chance to go see Gary LeMell sing at Catalina's Jazz Club in Hollywood last night. It was a good time. The LeMell's have been very supportive of me and my family before and during my illness and I appreciate them a lot.
HDNet is showing the Ridley Scott Director's Cut of Blade Runner this month. If you have never seen the movie, you really should; it's a great sci-fi version of film noir. Particularly, see the Director's Cut if you can as this version is much better then the distributed version originally shown when the movie came out. I forgot what a crush I have on Sean Young... and Elizabeth McGovern too (who is not in Blade Runner but like Sean Young is a tall, striking brunette).
The NBA season has started and I've been watching some games on TV. I like pro ball, but I like college basketball much better. Since I have high definition in my opinion the best sport to watch in that format is hockey... some would say golf, some would say auto racing. Frankly, just about anything is good in HD.
That's about it for tonight. Not much of substance but we need cotton candy once in a while too. I'll get serious tomorrow.
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Medical Update 10-30-2008
It's been about a month since I have had chemo. We've been focusing on getting me up to speed on Standostatin and despite a few bumps in the road it looks like we are almost there. With luck I will be on a long acting dose of Standostatin next Monday, and chemo again the week after.
Monday, October 27, 2008
Bram & Jenna Cohen Update
Bram doesn't think so either and has not engaged in immoral behavior to my knowledge. ( Unless wearing socks to a board meeting is immoral ;) I jest. Bram works as hard as any aspie I know of to avoid being intentionally rude or unkind to people.
Just hoped to clear up our misunderstanding as I was intending to set up a contrast between AS and "tech-geekiness" rather than a comparison.>>
Update 10-27-2008
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Bram Cohen update 10-22-2008
Monday, October 20, 2008
Second Update 10-19-2008
Best Chicken Ever update 10-19-2008
Sunday, October 19, 2008
You can't win them all update 10-19-2008
Thursday, October 16, 2008
Glorious Red Sox Win Update October 16th 2008
Monday, October 13, 2008
Monday Morning Update 10-13-2008
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
earling morning update october 7th 2008
Monday, October 6, 2008
Post Chemo Update October 6th 2008
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Money Grubbing Update
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Baseball end of season update
Saturday, September 27, 2008
mid morning addendum september 27 2008
early morning update september 27 2008
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
This I had to post
Man charged after allegedly passing gas toward cop
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
(09-24) 18:52 PDT South Charleston, W.Va. (AP) --
A West Virginia man who police said passed gas and fanned it toward a patrolman has been charged with battery on a police officer.
Jose A. Cruz, 34, of Clarksburg, was pulled over early Tuesday for driving without headlights, police said. According to the criminal complaint, Cruz smelled of alcohol, had slurred speech and failed three field sobriety tests before he was handcuffed and taken to a police station for a breathalyzer test.
As Patrolman T.E. Parsons prepared the machine, Cruz scooted his chair toward Parsons, lifted his leg and "passed gas loudly," the complaint said.
Cruz, according to complaint, then fanned the gas toward the officer.
"The gas was very odorous and created contact of an insulting or provoking nature with Patrolman Parsons," the complaint alleged.
He was also charged with driving under the influence, driving without headlights and two counts of obstruction.
Cruz acknowledged passing gas, but said he didn't move his chair toward the officer nor aim gas at the patrolman. He said he had an upset stomach at the time, but police denied his request to go to the bathroom when he first arrived at the station.
"I couldn't hold it no more," he said.
He also denied being drunk and uncooperative as the police complaint alleged. He added he was upset at being prepared for a breathalyzer test while having an asthma attack. The police statement said he later resisted being secured for a trip to a hospital that he requested for asthma treatment.
Cruz said the officers thought the gas incident was funny when it happened and laughed about it with him.
"This is ridiculous," he said. "I could be facing time."
http://sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/n/a/2008/09/24/national/a172444D31.DTL
Monday, September 15, 2008
Update - September 15
Sunday, September 7, 2008
More Cheerful Update Sunday Sep. 7 2008
Friday, September 5, 2008
Update September 5th 2008
Monday, August 25, 2008
Coast to Coast Update
After flying back and spending two nights at home, once again I hit the road, this time for my stepfather's 80th birthday celebration in San Francisco. This was a hard weekend for me healthwise because I really felt tired and couldn't really take advantage of the beautiful weather we had. I spent most of the time in the hotel room sleeping. The times I did spend with my family were wonderful, particularly Friday evening when we went over to David and Maggie's house for dinner. I really enjoy seeing them and being able to have our family together.
I know I am being general in terms of the details of the trips. Truly there is so much to say and so many emotions I felt spending time with both of my families. I am extremely lucky to have two groups of family who I love so much.
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
August 12 Update
Monday, August 4, 2008
Post Chemo Update Monday August 4th
I'll post more later.
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Six Month Update: July 31, 2008
This six months, without a doubt, have been the toughest time of my life. I don't have much good to say about them; if I had a chance I would certainly re-write the script and what I have experienced these last six months would not be included.
However, I have been blessed in many ways. In particular, the relationship I have with my Dad John has been completely transformed. Unfortunately, we both have a lot of physical problems in common, but our pain has allowed us to communicate to each other in a way that not a lot of people can understand - each of us understands what the other is going through, in a way. I feel closer to my Dad then I ever have before. For many years, both of us had issues communicating with the other, and there was a lot of resentment, at least on my part. The blessing is that I don't feel that way anymore.
The relationships I have with my entire family have changed. David and I have become better brothers and friends. My Father Mark continues to amaze me with his wisdom and love. He is by far the smartest person I know, much smarter then me, and that's saying something : ) I find we are very alike, scarily similar in many ways. He has gone through a lot and has the wisdom and scars to prove it.
Watching my Mom go through this with me has been very hard, because I know how powerless she is and how much it hurts her to see me in pain. I think it's easier to go through this then to watch it, because at least if you're going through it, you know how it feels. My Mom can only watch and hear me bitch about things.
So, I am blessed with wonderful family and friends whom I appreciate more then ever. But when it comes down to it, I'm the one who gets to go through it. No one else can do it for me, unfortunately. I don't know what the next six months will hold. Regardless, you will hear about it here.
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Sunday 7-27 update
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Tuesday Post Chemo Update
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Tuesday Night Update
I've always been a U2 fan; not to the extent that I loved Springsteen (well, that love was a bit disturbed, to be honest. At one point in my life, I actually thought Springsteen was God's incarnate representative on Earth. But that is another story for another time.) but I was definitely a fan. In fact, I am probably one of the few people that saw them in completely different venues as they made their way to stardom: I saw them at the Hollywood Palladium, the Long Beach Arena, the Sports Arena, and the Coliseum, on their various tours of America. I clearly remember hearing "Where The Streets Have No Name" for the first time and being absolutely exhilarated. As I grew up and my musical tastes changed and morphed, I think I began taking their music for granted. I listened less and less and relied on my memory instead of actually putting their albums on.
I put The Joshua Tree on for the first time in a while today. The music hit me hard, and I remembered why I became a U2 fan. I couldn't believe how incredibly powerful the music is, even 21 years on. Listening to "Running To Stand Still" on the bus this afternoon, I nearly broke out in tears. I guess I never really heard the lyrics, or, more likely, my life experience has changed my perception of them and the emotion they elicit from me.
Music is incredibly important to me; it always has been. It is as important as food, water, and air. It connects me with others, and connects me with my Higher Power, God. I am blessed to have experienced the wonderful creativity of the bands who make me smile and cry.
Monday, July 14, 2008
Monday Night Update
I will say that I have been listening to an amazing history of Alternative Rock by Alan Cross. I highly recommend it. Supposedly there are three volumes; I found volumes one and two on ITunes but no luck finding volume 3.
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Thursday Update
Monday, July 7, 2008
Chemo Update - Monday 7/7
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Sunday Night Update
Tomorrow I go in for another chemo round. I am finding it difficult to get myself to lay down and sleep. I will admit I am nervous and scared about the outcome. I know that the doctor and everyone is doing everything they can to help me not be sick. That still doesn't comfort me, as I can't get the feeling of nausea out of my mind.
I spent a very nice afternoon with family and friend Melissa at the musical "Wicked" at the Pantages Theater in Hollywood. I enjoyed the show; the staging was excellent and the cast was great. We went to dinner afterwards and had a very nice time together. As a result of a bet between Melissa and myself, I now owe her a homecooked meal of her choice (I said that Kristin Chenoweth was in the Broadway cast of The Producers as Ula; it was actually Cady Huffman). I hope you don't get ptomaine poisoning after eating my meal, Mellisa : )
I'll try to update tomorrow, depending on how I feel.
Thursday, July 3, 2008
My Morning So Far
I hope the rest of my day is better.
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
ESPN's My Wish
Monday, June 30, 2008
Recomendation: Lenny Bruce is OUT again
Lenny Bruce speaks the truth, and he makes me laugh my ass off.
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Sunday Update
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Late Night Update
My photographic memory is both a gift and a curse. I remember everything; there is no filter. And much of what I remember, I would like to forget.
Here's the thing - I doubt he even remembers me. He certainly doesn't think about me, or if he does, he doesn't have the visceral reaction to his name that I had. Many of the people whom I still hold resentments against - my ex girlfriend, people I went to high school with, bosses I had in the past - I am sure they have moved on. I, on the other hand, still am filled with shame and anger which never was resolved and never has quite gone away.
Perhaps - perhaps this resentment is physically manifested in my tumor. I can't afford to have resentment at all; unresolved anger is a killer, along with regret. So perhaps my inability to forgive and forget stayed with me, and as I learn how to forgive and forget the tumor will shrink away. I don't want to be angry for things that happened decades ago, or to be angry at people who don't care enough about me that it would even matter to them. I like the person I am now. I feel proud to show him to the world. Maybe one day I can accept the past me in the same way.
Thursday Morning Update
I saw on the news today that a single mother of two in Palm Beach Florida is auctioning her house and herself as a bride on e-bay... that is kind of frightening to me. I'm not sure if I would ever get that desperate to find a mate. You have to really question someones motives in that situation... she's not that bad looking, I am surprised she hasn't been able to find someone in a more conventional manner. I'd definitely be doing some background checks before we went on a date!
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Latest Cancer Update
So, things are stable, which is a good thing. The next step in treatment will be to modify the protocol so that I don't get so sick, and move me from an active, full time treatment to more of a maintenance regime. We are looking at another six cycles of chemo, or about three months. Hopefully by that time most of what I need can be accomplished either by shots self administered and by pills. Ideally I would be looking to go back to work in the fall, or, at least that is what we are all shooting for.
We had a very good meeting. I feel like we are all on the same page, and that we have the same goals, which are to continue treatment with as little side effects as possible and move toward a maintenance program at the end of the six cycles.
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Perspective
No matter how bad chemo is, my life is far better then anything Raven or the others like her will ever experience. I need to remember that compared to most people my life is cupcakes.
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Thursday PM Update - This &*%king Sucks!!!
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Tuesday PM Update
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Sunday Update
What I would like to believe is that tomorrow is the beginning of the end; that the marker tests and scans will show a marked improvement in my condition; and that I can begin to consider resuming normal life once again. That is my hope and wish, anyway. I have come down completely from the high of last weekend, but last weekend also made me realize the possibilities life holds for me once my treatment is finished. I am going to try to hold on to that goal and vision as I go forward.
Saturday, June 14, 2008
Saturday Night Update
Friday, June 13, 2008
Friday Update
"Let me tell you the truth. What is, IS. And what should be is fantasy, a terrible lie; which was given to the people long ago."
Lenny Bruce
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Tuesday Update
I am once again back at home, alone, going through my daily routine. After a weekend with such emotional highs for me it has been hard to be by myself and once again face the fact that next Monday I will start chemo again.
I have felt sad and lonely today, longing for the emotional connections that I received this weekend on a regular basis. I realize that I still have a long way to go before I achieve many of my goals. I still tend to isolate myself out of habit and what came so naturally to me over the weekend has become more difficult as I returned to my familiar environment.
This is a hard post for me to write. I started to write this in the morning and couldn't finish. I find myself censoring my words and not wanting to share with you my deep sadness at being alone again when I really am longing for some sort of partner in my life.
I never used to feel lonely; I prefered being by myself. Obviously something has happened to me that now moves me to want and crave connections with people in a new way. It is a hard thing to understand; I am observing myself and my life motivations change and it is both scary and wonderful.
Monday, June 9, 2008
Post Wedding Update
To all of the new friends I met who might be reading this blog for the first time, it was a real pleasure to connect with you and I hope to continue to get to know you. To those friends and family who I saw again, what a wonderful time I had with all of you celebrating Maggie and David's new life together. The memories I have will last for a long time.
Back to the subject at hand - cancer and my recovery from it. Although I did some things I shouldn't have, such as dance way too much, overall I wasn't in pain, and when I was in pain I recovered quickly. If I was measuring my progress by lack of pain on a regular basis, I would have come very far. Before I left, the oncologist informed me that overall things look good and that the recent marker tests show good progress. I'll begin chemo again next Monday with a reduced chemical protocol which should make me less sick (knock on wood). At some point in the next few weeks I'll go in to have some MRI and CAT Scans done to see where we are, and my treatment will be adjusted accordingly. I am thinking positively and I know all of you are.
Although the trip was great, it's really nice to be home and be able to sleep in my own bed again, have regular cell phone and internet access, and watch tv : )
Friday, May 30, 2008
I need to go to Las Vegas
The last time I went to Las Vegas, I lost quite a bit of money playing craps. I won some money, too. The problem with me is, I win and I keep playing, and I end up giving it all back and then some.
Ideally, if I must go to Las Vegas, I should go with someone who will stop me from playing once I win money, or at least, stop me from going into debt. I think that would be quite a job for anyone, though. Probably best if I stay away from there, unfortunately. I admit, I have a gambling problem... whenever I gamble, I go a little nuts. I can't even bet on a football pool at work because I find myself getting crazy with the results. It stops being fun. I guess that's the definition of an addiction... it stops being fun.
Still and all, I want to go to Las Vegas. Would anyone like to pay for my trip?
Friday May 30th Update
Sunday, May 25, 2008
What I am listening to version 4.0
edIT:,"Certified Air Raid Material"
The Doors, "The Soft Parade"
Beastie Boys, "License to Ill"
Kid Creole & The Coconuts, "Off The Coast of Me"
Marlena Shaw, "California Soul"
The Rolling Stones, "Some Girls"
Ed Rec Records, "EdBanger Volume 2"
Simian Mobile Disco, "Attack Sustain Decay Release"
Thelonious Monk, "Live In Paris, Volumes 1 & 2"
ZZ Top, "Tres Hombres"
Anton Ellis, "Soul of Jamaica"
Molotov, "Donde Jugaran Las Ninas"
Saturday, May 24, 2008
Saturday May 24th Update
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Tuesday PM Update
On a sadder note, my sincere condolences to Ted Kennedy and his family.
On a brighter note, did anyone see my boy John Lester throw a no-hitter for the Boston Red Sox? Way to go, my friend. You inspire me... to come back from cancer and perform at such a high physical level is what I aspire to do myself.
Monday, May 19, 2008
Monday PM Update
Sunday, May 18, 2008
Sunday Update
Once I get back, I'll do one treatment and then go in for cat scans and MRI's to determine how the treatment is affecting the tumors. The pain in my ass is pretty much gone now, although I still feel it a little at the end of the day, but nowhere near what it was like previously where I couldn't even sit down or stand up without feeling pain. I suppose that means the treatment is working, but we'll see.
I have to tell you my (mis)adventures with medical marijuana : ) As you may know, I qualify as a cancer patient to buy pot legally and use it to relieve my pain and my chemo symptoms. My oncologist suggested I try it because many of my chemo symptoms (nausea, fatigue, loss of sensation in hands and feet, nerve damage, etc.) supposedly can be dealt with by the use of marijuana. On Monday after my chemo, my doctor and I had a frank conversation about how to use it and what he recommended. I then went over to one of the local "buyers cooperative" to purchase my "medicine." I bought some edible marijuana as that was recommended by both my doctor and the sellers (I have no experience smoking pot and in any case with my asthma I couldn't do it anyway). The marijuana came in the form of cookies and a brownie. It cost me about $20. I took half a cookie when I got home, on an empty stomach. Well, I got sick as a dog!! I mean, I barfed all over the place, and I was stoned too, so I couldn't even stand up : ) That was my first and last adventure with medical marijuana. Apparently my system is not set up for that sort of thing...
I've heard wonderful things about marijuana and how it relieved many people's symptoms when nothing else would. It doesn't do that for me : )
More later.
Friday, May 16, 2008
I think the worst is over
I know you want me to write more, but to be honest I don't have all that much to say; or, rather, I have a lot to say, but no energy to sit and write it all down. At some point I'll try to give you a more comprehensive update with more insight into what is going on inside my head, but today is not that day : )
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Thursday May 15 Update
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Saturday PM Update
The movie I saw was "Speed Racer" and I liked it. Visually it's like nothing I've ever seen; I'd describe it as a live action cartoon, if that makes sense. Although the movie seems to be marketed to a family audience (and there were plenty of kids in the audience, unfortunately), this is most certainly NOT a kids movie. I was surprised at the cursing throughout the movie, as well as the overall violence. For the most part, I was pleasantly surprised and I recommend it. PLEASE don't take your kids. If you are going to take your kids, for pete's sake SHUT THEM UP!!! One child cried throughout the entire movie. I wanted to tell the parents, take your godforsaken child out of the theater so the rest of us can enjoy the movie in peace! I kept my mouth shut... I like and subscribe to the WC Fields view of children: "I like children; particularly female children between 18 and 22 years of age..."
Saturday Update
Today I will be running some errands and going to see the movie "Speed Racer" over at the Grove...
Friday, May 9, 2008
Friday AM Update
Today I am going out with my Dad (John) to go clothes shopping, which I am really looking forward to.
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
PM Update for Wednesday
I went to Santa Monica today to the Barnes & Noble on the 3rd Street Promenade. My Aunt Vicki sent me a gift certificate, and even though there's a location closer to my house (Santa Monica is a good 15 miles and an hour bus ride away), I decided to venture out, and I'm glad I did. First, I got some really great books:
"This Is New York" by M. Sassak, a picture book about New York from my childhood; Universe Publishing did a reprint of the book last year. I'm going to try and collect all of his books, which I fondly remember reading over and over as a child and imagining the different places he traveled to and captured;
"Slavery by Another Name" by Douglas A. Blackmon: A book detailing the forced labor situation in the American South between the Civil War and World War Two. Very chilling; combine Southern racism and Northern indifference and millions of black men were enslaved by an organized, government sanctioned, big business supported system of forced labor;
And the best for last:
"Transit Maps of the World" by Mark Ovenden. A collection of every transit system's map from across the world; from London to Tokyo and in between. My dream book. I've wanted a book like this since I was a little boy. When I saw this on the shelf, my first reaction was "No Way!" I could spend the whole day with my nose in this book, going over the maps and tracing them in my mind.
The weather in Santa Monica was overcast but not too cold. There were a lot of mothers with children in strollers. I had lunch on the Promenade and really enjoyed it. On a personal note, I think I looked pretty good in a sweater I haven't been able to properly fit in to for quite a while. I don't know exactly how much weight I've lost, but it's gotta be close to 140 pounds now since August.
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
Tuesday PM Update
Today I had a nice conversation with my cousin, Alison. As we were talking, I started to tell her how I had come to accept the fact that, despite all of the best efforts, this cancer could still kill me. This is a pretty macabre subject for anyone, but I think particularly so for family and friends. I think it's harder for someone to watch this then to be the one who actually goes though it, although going through it is no walk in the park either. The point is, I don't mean to make people uncomfortable when I talk about cancer and death. You can't really have a good conversation when that is the topic; I mean, what do you say to that? How does one respond? I guess, what I am trying to say is that maybe I need to not say certain things out loud; maybe those kinds of things are best kept to this blog rather then in casual conversation. But, I also need to say, I've accepted that I may die. I don't expect that is going to happen and I am not depressed as I was when I first was diagnosed. But I do understand that the bottom line is this is a deadly desease and if it so chooses it will kill me no matter what I do.
Tuesday AM Update
I feel a bit more human today. The nausea has disappeared but I am still tired. My appetite is a bit more. I can really feel the neuropothy
Sunday, May 4, 2008
Sunday AM update
Having cancer really makes life simple. It is no longer a matter of IF I want to do something (go to the movies, go out to breakfast, go for a walk, etc.), it's now a matter of CAN I do something (will my body let me). For instance, I decided to get up early this morning and go out to breakfast. For any normal, non sick person, this would be a pretty automatic decision; after all the breakfast place (Denny's) is only two blocks up and four blocks over, hardly a walk that would even cause a sweat. For me, however, it's not as simple as making the decision. I have to consider if I will get sick on the way; if I will get so tired I will have to sit down and rest; or even if I get there, will I be able to eat anything. However, sometimes you have to simply put your body in motion and damn all of the possibilities. I had to get out.
I successfuly made it to Denny's, ordered breakfast, and actually managed to eat some of it. I am really amazed at just how much my appitite has changed. What I used to be able to eat comfortably I simply cannot any more. My eyes are certainly bigger then my stomach. I say I probably eat less then half of what I used to eat. This is significant. Food has played such a central role in my life. I've spent my life overweight and, recently, significantly overweight. Now, I can't taste anything; and even so I can't eat it comfortably. So the relationship between me and food has been altered radically. My brain still says, "let's eat." But my body says, "nope." I tell you, it's a trip.
So I'm home now, ready to relax and try to enjoy the rest of the day.
Saturday, May 3, 2008
Saturday Night Update
I have a lot to say, but when it comes to writing it down and putting it into words I find it to be very difficult. I'll try to write more over the next few days.
Friday, May 2, 2008
Update Friday May 2nd
My appetite is extremely poor. I am finding that my energy directly correlates with my eating on a regular basis (surprise, huh?). When I eat, I feel better. The problem is, I sometimes can't bring myself to eat. Funny, since food has been central to my life since I can remember. Oh, the irony of all this crap.
Thursday, May 1, 2008
Update: Thursday AM
This whole reporting of symptoms is getting pretty old. I get sick, I get better. I get sick, I get better. If it's getting old to write about it, it's probably getting old to read about it too. I wish I could give you something more exciting, such as:
A little green man appeared at the foot of my bed last night. He waved his magic wand and suddenly I had two heads. I quickly got into an argument with myself over which head would face forward and which one would face backward. We decided to compromise and face to each side, whereupon I promptly ran into the wall getting out of my bed.
Anything other then, I feel better, I feel sick...
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
I wish I could tell you...
Despite this, I still have a positive outlook and feel good in my heart and soul. This will pass eventually and I will begin to feel human once again; just in time for my next chemo treatment (sigh).
Hopefully more to follow if I am feeling up to it.
Monday, April 28, 2008
Post Chemo Update
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Saturday Morning Update
I am feeling good today. I ran a whole bunch of errands yesterday, one of which took me over to the DMV in Hollywood. This DMV is right around the corner from where I used to work at Comcast (now Time Warner). It was strange to be there and walk around the area I spent so much of my time in. I had some good times there, and a lot of bad times too; but I tend (as I think a lot of us do) to romanticize the past and only remember the good times.
You'll probably see another update from me later on.
Friday, April 25, 2008
Interesting Dream I Just Woke Up From
I had some sort of meeting with Pat Summit (Tennessee Women's Basketball coach; extremely successful and very southern). I'm not sure why we were meeting, maybe I was being recruited? She walks in the room and without introducing herself (I guess I was supposed to know who she is) says in a very southern drawl, "Well, Mr. Levinson, you've been given responsibility of a very unique type of cancer, and as you know, the likelihood of survival is around 10 percent." I interrupted her and said, "Coach, hold on just one second! Now, that is no way to introduce yourself to someone." (!) Then, somehow, I was giving a speech in front of a bunch of very well dressed people. JFK and Milton Berle were in the audience(?) (!). I started talking, but instead of sounding like me, I sounded like Jack Lemmon (?). I began talking about how grateful I am, but it was all completely insincere, and it sounded even more fake since I sounded like Jack Lemmon (picture the movie Glengarry Glen Ross and you'll get the idea).
Weird, huh?
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Update: Random Thoughts
I have been watching a lot of playoff hockey. If you've never seen hockey in the playoffs, you owe it to yourself to check it out, if you are a sports fan. It is amazingly intense and physical, and will suck you in if you give it a chance. Added bonus: hockey in HD is amazing.
A lot of the music I have been downloading lately comes from Paris France. Apparently the dance and electronic music scene in Paris is the best in the world... I love the stuff coming out from there; it's catchy and fun. I don't understand most of the words, but when the music is that good, it doesn't matter; rhythm is universal.
Still feeling tired, but less so. I have a busy day tomorrow; I gotta go to the DMV in the morning and run some errands after.
AM Update - Thursday 4-24-2008
Although I try to be as positive as I can be, on occasion I still get waves of regret for the things I haven't done in my life. I feel it particularly when I get fatigued and end up sleeping what I consider to be an over-amount.
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Tuesday AM Update
Today is Earth Day. Our lovely city and the Wilshire Center improvement district has decided to close Wilshire Blvd. near my house to all vehicle traffic to hold a street fair. Today, apparently, is a 'car free' day here in Los Angeles... yeah, right! By closing down Wilshire, a major, major traffic artery, all day, they are re-routing traffic through the surrounding neighborhoods - mine included. Already, at not even 7am, I can see there is significantly more traffic around my house. And it should get worse as they day goes on. I can't even imagine how frustrated drivers will be when they realize Wilshire is closed... So in order to create the illusion of a car free day, my street and neighborhood will have to absorb a lot of Wilshire Blvd.'s traffic; we will get more cars, more polution, both air and noise, and angry drivers. This, my friends, is a load of crapacola : ) I wish someone had thought this through better; at least do it on a weekend!
Monday, April 21, 2008
Monday AM Update
I had a pretty good weekend, although I was really tired. I got to see my father, my sister, and her fiance on Saturday, and Sunday, I got to see Mom, Dad, my brother and his fiance. I'm very lucky to have incredible family. This thing has changed us, has made us closer and appreciate each other more then ever. In that, it is a blessing.